RESOURCES
BOOKS:
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Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers by Mary Roach
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Smoke Gets in Your Eyes by Caitlin Doughty
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From Here to Eternity: Traveling the World to Find the Good Death
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Being with Dying: Cultivating Compassion and Fearlessness in the Presence of Death by Joan Halifax
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Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Atul Gawande
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When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
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The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully
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Holding Space: On Loving, Dying, and Letting Go by Amy Wright Glenn
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The Dead Bird (2016 edition)
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COVID19
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COVID19 addendum (Compassion and Choices)
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COVID19 Understanding Your Options (Compassion and Choices)
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Conversation Project COVID19 Guide
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Prepare for Your Care COVID19 info
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National POLST COVID19 resources
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Respecting Choices COVID19 resources
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COVID funeral reimbursement
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ADVANCE CARE PLANNING
(advance directive, living will, healthcare proxy/agent)
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The Five Wishes, legal in DC and 42 states
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Compassion & Choices Advance Planning Guide and Toolkit
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Compassion and Choices How to Talk to Your Doctor About Your End of Life Options
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Compassion and Choices Dementia Provision
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The Conversation Project (how to talk about your EOL wishes)
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Everplans, a plethora of info on EOL planning issues
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1A segment: Where to Start with End of Life Decisions
PODCASTS:
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DEATH CAFES & OTHER EVENTS:
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See my events page for death cafes and other events that I'm hosting or participating in
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See the announcements section of the Facebook group. I keep a running list (organized by month) of my events AND events being hosted or organized by other people/organizations.
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END-OF-LIFE DOCUMENTS:
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Five Wishes (website)
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GYST (check list for EOL documents)
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Why You Need to Make a 'When I Die' File—Before It's Too Late
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END-OF-LIFE DOULAS:
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So, You Want to Hire a Death Doula by Amy Wright Glenn
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Personal Grief Directed Her Toward Becoming an End-of-Life Doula
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OTHER:
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Dr. BJ Miller's TED Talk on the End of Life
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The "WeCroak" app (look on iTunes for it)
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How to Think About Your Own Mortality (Without Getting Depressed)
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MEDICAL AID-IN-DYING:
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When My Time Comes: Conversations About Whether Those Who Are Dying Should Have the Right to Determine When Life Should End, a book by Diane Rehm
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My terminally ill mother wanted to end her own life. What would it take to fulfill her last wish?
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At 94, she was ready to die by fasting. Her daughter filmed it.
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PREGNANCY & INFANT LOSS:
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HOSPICE & PALLIATIVE CARE:
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LEGACY:
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MOVIES, TV & DOCUMENTARIES:
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Being Mortal (documentary) on Frontline
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Coco, the Disney movie
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Oprah's Super Soul Sunday with Dr. BJ Miller
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End Game (documentary) on Netflix
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Obit (documentary)
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Extremis (documentary short) on Netflix
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Alternate Endings: Six New Ways to Die in America (documentary) on HBO
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GRIEF:
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Refuge in Grief (website)
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What's Your Grief (website)
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It's OK That You're Not OK (book)
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Modern Loss (website)
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Modern Loss (book)
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For Those in Grief, Talking to a Dead Loved One Is Good for Mental Health
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How does grief change over time? (video)
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The Dinner Party (find a table in your area)
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Death is a social justice issue. Learn more.
INTERSECTIONALITY & DEATH:
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Laverne Cox lambastes ‘deadnaming.’ What is it and why is it a problem?
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1619 podcast episode on the history of racial disparities in healthcare
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Radical Death Studies (decolonizing death studies & radicalizing death practices)
PET LOSS:
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Pet loss support group on the first Tuesday of each month at the Big Bad Woof in Takoma Park. It runs from 6:30-7:30 pm. YOU MUST RSVP to karen@solaceveterinaryservices.com (Dr. Karen Randall) ahead of time.
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My dog was looking into my eyes as she died: the grief of losing a pet is real
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GREEN BURIAL & HOME FUNERAL:
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Congressional Cemetery in DC (offers green burial options)
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Recompose (currently legal in Washington State only)
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SOCIAL MEDIA AND DEATH:
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THE DEATH POSITIVE MOVEMENT:
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The Order of the Good Death (website)
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GROWING OLDER:
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IONA Senior Services in DC (services and events for older people and for adult children caring for aging parents.
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MEMORIALS, TRIBUTES, FUNERALS
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DEATH BY SUICIDE
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If you or someone you know need help, call the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255.
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